Kiss is an amazing feeling that touches peoples heart when I was a teenager I never kissed or even felt in love I’ve always ask my friends how does it feels like some ones kissing you? They just smile at me and I also ask my self why we need people need to kissed? Its funny feeling but true I never been kissed or in love until I reached 20. Until one moment when I hang out with my best friend together with her boyfriend we went to a party with our classmate and friend .his boy friends best friend came and he introduced his best friend on me. I just smile and go back chatting with my classmates every one of my friends know that I was a man hater I hate dating and hang out with all guys. At first I thought he was a gay because him with our gay friends chatting and I think there something’s going with them. I was laughing and all of our friends chatting about their issue. I noticed he staring at me but I just ignore him thinking I doesn’t matter any way his gay maybe he just insecure of my beauty. After that part we hang out with my best friend, his boy friend and his best friend. i never noticed that my best friend and his guy had a planned they just leave me with his friend we chat with each other we drink but I make sure that I never drunk to many . Then as we chat he proposed that he like me… I was laughing and I tell him how can you like me in fact you’re a gay…? Then I keep laughing because a can trust a gay friends rather than a guy coz I really hated guys. . But then he kissed me in my lips for 30 seconds… I was so…..So shocked!! My whole body was freezing my arms and legs was freezing I could not even raised my finger I. I was so blank , I could not breath… after he kissed me he tell me how he feel towards me then he hug me so gently as I feel his heart when he hug me I feel his sincerity to me and I remember what my friend told me that “when some one tell you that he loves you listen to his heart rather than what he speak then you know that person really loves you. Then I found out its true … I could not speak, I was mute until I’ve got home I could not sleep keep thinking of what happed for the first time in my life I feel that I’m special, I keep smiling with no reason and for the first time all my negative thought about a guy was gone, for the first time I appreciate every guy I met.. Everything was change .I thought its enough for me to be alone. But I was wrong being with some one makes you happy and give meaning of life; it gives inspiration everyday of our life. Because of that first kiss every things change on me. Early morning I saw him standing outside our home I was shocked he after that night he doesn’t go home instead waiting whole night standing waiting for me… Waiting for my answer, so I told him “what should I say? I don’t know what to say” I don’t know how I feel towards you? So I told him… Go home take some rest… give me time I need to think of it many times… Don’t worry ill let you know my decision… when I saw his face I feel pity on him he looks so tired never sleep the whole night just for me… then when I go back to my room I keep thinking how can I give him an answer ? I’m not sure of my feeling… Did I love him or not? But one thing for sure I like the way he kissed me , I know he really love me but I’m not sure if I really love him m just too.. its not fair if I accept him just because I was pity on him he deserve some one who loves him too.. I go to my best friend house and told him everything she was laughing and shouting so happy she told me that it was her plan they set up me because that guy asking help to talk to me.. I don’t know I supposed to get mad but I was not instead I’m thankful of what she did. She told me that guy admire me for a long time…I’ m so flattered because I never expect that with my attitude always nagged every guy I met but still there some one admire me…so I give him a chance we hang out , watching movie together , we date .. And then we became lovers.
A lot of people have difficulty talking about intimacy, but open communication is important to all parts of a relationship. If you really like the way your partner kisses you, let them know. If you don’t like something, also let your partner know that, you must open to each other even in a small things to avoid conflict, some keep to them self a to not to embarrassed their partner even they don’t enjoy it but as you go along this kind of relationship theirs an instance that one of you don’t enjoy your relationship so communication and understanding to each other is important. There also some people satisfied is pseudo relationship they are more than friends but less than a lover they do what lovers do they kiss dated but no personal commitment with each other some both partner have their own relationship . But why some people settle this kind of relationship maybe they happy? Or satisfied in this situation… kiss does not necessarily you mean we need to have engage in a relationship as long as we satisfied what ever the stability in our life as long as we are happy .
Kiss is part of human being from birth we kissed to our parents from child to when we grow at our young age we experienced kiss for the first time until we married kiss gives connection and communication to each other an expression of love, admiration or to value one another . Kiss a part of human existence when to people fall in love and get married and then give birth so we live because of a kiss. It also gives advantage in our health it improves circulation in our body and fight against cavities. But our first kiss is the un forgettable moment our life that cherished for ever.
We’ve all seen movies and in some scenes we have come across kissing and it just looks magical and perfect. Girls swoon at the sight of their favorite actor and actress kissing each other with magic in the air but in real life, we all know that it’s different. After a great date and the guy walks you to your door, you’re not sure if you should initiate a kiss or wait for the guy to do it…and even worse, because you have never been kissed, you’re afraid that it will be an awful experience.
As a woman, you need to know how you can get the guy to kiss you with small hints and gestures. If you are a bit nervous, you might be sending the wrong signals to the guy and instead of kissing you, he may think you’re not interested.
Always make eye contact. Keep an open posture and always smile. Don’t fidget, bite your nails or look at the ground.Keep your arms relaxed and don’t cross them because that definitely gives a signal that you want him away from you. When a guy talks, look like you’re genuinely interested in what he’s talking about. When you say his name, whisper it.
If you’re a guy and you see these signals from a girl, then it’s time to make a move.Look at her eyes and slowly smile. Make sure you keep as near as possible to the girl. It is important that you know what is near and what is too near. Don’t assume at first so keep a small distance but occasionally brush your arm in hers as you walk.
Now let’s say you’re walking a girl to the door and you see the signals mentioned previously, say goodnight and look at her eyes. This way, you can gauge if she is expecting a kiss or not. Usually you can tell, if a girl hesitates to open the door at once to go inside.Before I continue, at least make sure that your first kiss comes from somebody you really really like, if not love for it to be memorable. Now let’s continue on how to make it a good first kiss.
When your lips meet, part your lips gently and brush your lips against your partner. Tilt your head very slightly to avoid bumping your noses into each other. Press your lips gently with you partner’s. Make sure too that your eyes are closed as you kiss.After the initial gentle kiss open your eyes slowly and look at your partner. If it looks like they enjoyed it, go back and kiss again. You can slowly use your tongue and gently slip it into their mouth. Remember not to make it too sloppy or wet because your partner might get turned off.
While you are kissing, if you’re a guy use both hands to hold a girl’s waist and use the back of your hand too to gently brush against her face and if you’re a girl, use your hands around the guy’s neck.
With these tips, I assure you that you will have a wonderful first kiss experience which you will never forget.
