Most men have not taken the time to study the fine art of kissing a woman.

To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you.

If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you.

Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing.

After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.

Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%.

Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her.

One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention.

People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed.

The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss.

Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not. So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes.

Secondly, people who are like each other “like” each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages

By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss.

She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head.

Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she’s putting on your lips.

Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:

There’s the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip.

There’s the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip.

There’s the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.

There’s the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted.

The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other.

As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute.

Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it’s a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she’s doing.

Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other.

Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment.

Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.

If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth.

Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips.

Let her take the lead first in beginning to dance with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.

Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance.

If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper.

There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, “I absolutely love kissing you”, or “You are such an incredible woman”, or “You are so yummy, I just want to devour you”, etc.

When you say these things in your head or to her it’s going to magnify the potency of the kiss manifold.

This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you’ll know what I mean. This is what will really blow her mind with pleasure and have her melt into you because you are adoring her in the way she has fantasized about by mirroring how she wants to be kissed.

To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch. Caress her cheeks tenderly when you take a pause in kissing her before going in to kiss her again.

Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her.

Coordinate the way you kiss her with how you masterfully touch her face, hair, neck, and back to create incredibly delicious sensations for her. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her.

Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures.

Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you’re building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time.

Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again.

Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman.

Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss.

The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life.

Savor every moment of the kiss with her and have this naturally lead you to deeper sensual and sexual exploration that will blow her mind.

Mastering the fine art on how to kiss a girl is only the tip of the iceberg on bringing your woman absolute incredible pleasures that she does not even know is possible.

Copyright (c) 2008 Neo Young

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Author: Neo Young
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Every times of I think of my first kiss I can say that this was the miracles that happened to me, because it change my perception and my point of view in life. I was in love not because of admiration or crashes I’m in love because of my first kiss. It doesn’t matter where it happened of how did it happened what in necessary is that it touches your heart. kiss follows every beat of your heart just feel it , when you feel the touch of his lips flows circulation to your body towards your brain , feel what your said when you kissed not your mind because the time you follow your brain it makes you lust.. be gentle and feel the warm of your love. Its easy to say I love you either you mean it or not , its same with kiss its easy to kiss a person either you love her or not, like love action speaks louder than words you know when that person really loves you through his gentleness , sacrifice and most of all honest which the main measurement of love , being faithful . you kiss like you mean it , kiss because you love her not just because you like her , kiss of admiration is not the a true meaning of kiss nor love , what is beauty ? it just fade away when you grow old your beauty will fade. How can you love just because she’s pretty? You love her because of her beauty, yes… but not her personality, not who really she is or what she is? You must love her,, kissed her because simply you love her that is most important . Girls so busy spending their time and money to be pretty buy gorgeous dress make up, or some got surgery to change their image to be beautiful, but the truth is if some one loves you? he loves you because simply what you are not, your make up, your face etc. if guy really loves you simply because of your uniqueness among other girls, each of us has its own beauty and uniqueness, don’t spend time just because the criticisms of others stay as what you are now, because you are special and pretty for some one meant for you….
First kiss is a special kiss in our life, same as an innocent child who speaks honestly of what the child heart said. Like your first innocent kiss although you don’t understand what the meaning of that kiss but this kiss is message of honesty of your heart, that’s why our first love , first kiss long last for ever.. even though as we grow in adulthood we had a formal relationship and got married we never forget the person who our first love, first kiss, even though how funny it is or we call it puppy love we always cherished that kiss because it’s the first moment that touches our heart the first miracle of our life.
My first kiss is the miracle it s in my life cause it change everything to me before I thought kiss I just a lust , I have lots of negative thought about kiss, when I saw some body kissing even in the movie I hate it . kiss is a reason why I hate guy before because I thought they just kiss a girl to get what they want . I don’t even know the meaning of love. But when I experienced a kiss every thing has change it give positive out looks in life . now I know the importance of kiss it makes my cold heart warm , it makes me a good person , I never nagged with guys but instead I enjoy their company . their so caring and sweet. im so thankful of that guy my first love , my first kiss , my angel . but even though our relation doesn’t succeed , I never forget him , I never forget my first kiss.. hopefully we see each other some day.

Kiss is an amazing feeling that touches peoples heart when I was a teenager I never kissed or even felt in love I’ve always ask my friends how does it feels like some ones kissing you? They just smile at me and I also ask my self why we need people need to kissed? Its funny feeling but true I never been kissed or in love until I reached 20. Until one moment when I hang out with my best friend together with her boyfriend we went to a party with our classmate and friend .his boy friends best friend came and he introduced his best friend on me. I just smile and go back chatting with my classmates every one of my friends know that I was a man hater I hate dating and hang out with all guys. At first I thought he was a gay because him with our gay friends chatting and I think there something’s going with them. I was laughing and all of our friends chatting about their issue. I noticed he staring at me but I just ignore him thinking I doesn’t matter any way his gay maybe he just insecure of my beauty. After that part we hang out with my best friend, his boy friend and his best friend. i never noticed that my best friend and his guy had a planned they just leave me with his friend we chat with each other we drink but I make sure that I never drunk to many . Then as we chat he proposed that he like me… I was laughing and I tell him how can you like me in fact you’re a gay…? Then I keep laughing because a can trust a gay friends rather than a guy coz I really hated guys. . But then he kissed me in my lips for 30 seconds… I was so…..So shocked!! My whole body was freezing my arms and legs was freezing I could not even raised my finger I. I was so blank , I could not breath… after he kissed me he tell me how he feel towards me then he hug me so gently as I feel his heart when he hug me I feel his sincerity to me and I remember what my friend told me that “when some one tell you that he loves you listen to his heart rather than what he speak then you know that person really loves you. Then I found out its true … I could not speak, I was mute until I’ve got home I could not sleep keep thinking of what happed for the first time in my life I feel that I’m special, I keep smiling with no reason and for the first time all my negative thought about a guy was gone, for the first time I appreciate every guy I met.. Everything was change .I thought its enough for me to be alone. But I was wrong being with some one makes you happy and give meaning of life; it gives inspiration everyday of our life. Because of that first kiss every things change on me. Early morning I saw him standing outside our home I was shocked he after that night he doesn’t go home instead waiting whole night standing waiting for me… Waiting for my answer, so I told him “what should I say? I don’t know what to say” I don’t know how I feel towards you? So I told him… Go home take some rest… give me time I need to think of it many times… Don’t worry ill let you know my decision… when I saw his face I feel pity on him he looks so tired never sleep the whole night just for me… then when I go back to my room I keep thinking how can I give him an answer ? I’m not sure of my feeling… Did I love him or not? But one thing for sure I like the way he kissed me , I know he really love me but I’m not sure if I really love him m just too.. its not fair if I accept him just because I was pity on him he deserve some one who loves him too.. I go to my best friend house and told him everything she was laughing and shouting so happy she told me that it was her plan they set up me because that guy asking help to talk to me.. I don’t know I supposed to get mad but I was not instead I’m thankful of what she did. She told me that guy admire me for a long time…I’ m so flattered because I never expect that with my attitude always nagged every guy I met but still there some one admire me…so I give him a chance we hang out , watching movie together , we date .. And then we became lovers.

A lot of people have difficulty talking about intimacy, but open communication is important to all parts of a relationship. If you really like the way your partner kisses you, let them know. If you don’t like something, also let your partner know that, you must open to each other even in a small things to avoid conflict, some keep to them self a to not to embarrassed their partner even they don’t enjoy it but as you go along this kind of relationship theirs an instance that one of you don’t enjoy your relationship so communication and understanding to each other is important. There also some people satisfied is pseudo relationship they are more than friends but less than a lover they do what lovers do they kiss dated but no personal commitment with each other some both partner have their own relationship . But why some people settle this kind of relationship maybe they happy? Or satisfied in this situation… kiss does not necessarily you mean we need to have engage in a relationship as long as we satisfied what ever the stability in our life as long as we are happy .

Kiss is part of human being from birth we kissed to our parents from child to when we grow at our young age we experienced kiss for the first time until we married kiss gives connection and communication to each other an expression of love, admiration or to value one another . Kiss a part of human existence when to people fall in love and get married and then give birth so we live because of a kiss. It also gives advantage in our health it improves circulation in our body and fight against cavities. But our first kiss is the un forgettable moment our life that cherished for ever.

Privacy is the key. Watch for signals. Watch carefully, because sometimes the signals can be confusing – she may flirt with you, and then smack you on the head. These may just be coy games, or she may really be conflicted. Ask yourself these questions: Did you and your date seem to have a cozy, warm, close time together? Has she been flirting with you through body language? Has she licked her lips, or bit her lower lip while looking at you? Has she found excuses to touch you often? If you feel confident of these things, prepare to kiss! Watch for signals. Watch carefully, because sometimes the signals can be confusing – she may flirt with you, and then smack you on the head. These may just be coy games, or she may really be conflicted. Ask yourself these questions: Did you and your date seem to have a cozy, warm, close time together? Has she been flirting with you through body language? Has she licked her lips, or bit her lower lip while looking at you? Has she found excuses to touch you often? If you feel confident of these things, prepare to kiss! Make eye contact. If she is comfortable and doesn’t look away then she is ready. Lean in slowly. Don’t swoop in like a condor! Make it slow, nice, easy, and romantic. Hold her. Do not use a first kiss as your personal excuse to grope, grab, or get too familiar. Be a gentleman, for heaven’s sake. Reach around her waist, gently draw her toward you (again, gentlemen, do not squish her up against you and then grind your pelvis against her).Walk that fine line and make it a really excellent kiss. You don’t want to give her a chaste little peck. You also don’t want to (well, you may want to, but don’t!) shove your tongue down her throat. An excellent first kiss is one that is romantic, tender and memorable. Your mouth should not be overly opened or closed, and it shouldn’t be mushy or too tight (relax). Don’t let it go too long (more than, say, 20 seconds) or let it be too short (3 seconds is not enough) – think around 10 seconds or so. A tiny hint of tongue is nice if she seems willing, but makes it flirtatious and not insistent. Watch her look for the telltale signs that she wants to kiss you like: looking at your lips, licking her lips and or biting her bottom lip. Let your partner kiss you back, and move with him or her as long as you’re comfortable with what he or she is doing. Listen for clues that tell how much your partner is enjoying a particular kissing maneuver. If you hear a sigh or moan, or they begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are responding with favor

Kiss is so exciting especially if it’s your first kiss mostly in adolescent age (13-17). At this stage they spend more time longing for some one instituting a depth and rewarding relationship they watched carefully during this period searching for a good role model such as holly wood stars imitating their appearance how they look, how they dressed also they imitating how their peers fashion and style especially in girls. Mostly at 15 years old fall in love five or six times a year this is the start opposite sex sexual attraction because of physical appearance not focuses on inner qualities it started on crashes until lovers. Mostly at first kiss is the kiss that you ever cherished for a life time the moment in teen age life it makes person feel special .teen age lovers is the first step of engaging personal commitment to each other. Some fall in love or having their first kiss not on physical attraction but through some instances that started for just fine like spinning a bottle a “truth or dare “game until they became a lovers. Some of the relations are successful but mostly fail maybe due to immaturity or other circumstances. At this stage teen age starts exploring their curiosity although this is the stage of independent on their parents. Parents guidance is in need because for now a days as we seen theirs a lot on incidence of teenage pregnant mothers maybe without guidance or through their curiosity. Kiss is the start of sexual desire since teenage group are so aggressive their prone on this incident so safety and awareness in need. Each of us needs to explore this stage because this is a part of our growth and development but in depend on how their parents mold their child to be more mature person.

When you want to catch her attention?  You’ve got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence. Now, this doesn’t mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you are comfortable in your own skin. You can be secure, sweet and humble, all at the same time as long as you can caught her attention   . Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives.

First you have to. If you haven’t caught eye yet, then get her to notice. You’ve got to walk before you run, right? Say “Hi”. Say “Good-bye”. Wave. When he reciprocates, is when you know she notices you. Introduce yourself somehow and make conversation. Take an interest in who she is–what she likes, where she’s coming from, where she wants to go–and show him who you are, too. While some girls don’t like to talk that much, it’s nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn’t get to know you–unless she “likes” you for all the wrong reasons. Find out what you’re in common and include her in your world. chat also with friends in order to know her more her home address, her hobbies , likes and dislikes after that you may invite her several times to hang out together like watching movies together , a dinner date with romantic venue be creative  and take note all her favorite colors , flower , food  which gives you idea for your preparation or you can invite her for picnics or spending vacation to the beach  or you may cook together at home then spend the rest of the night watching  movie others spend more time knowing each other simply impressed her in your own way . Let her know that she special to you not only through your words but through your actions. Most importantly is giving her little space for she doesn’t be too obsessive. Eventually he’ll tell you one way or another whether or not he’s interested in reciprocating your affection. And if he’s not, don’t hang around him like a lost puppy. Sometimes you might be incompatible in ways that you don’t see, and sometimes a guy just isn’t ready for a long term relationship. Don’t take rejection too personally. It happens. Not everyone in the world is going to like you. Move on! There are other fish in the sea and if you followed the first step, you know that you’re a good catch.

Kiss is an emotional expression of love but it differs on what we feel such a in family or in an intimate relationship but it varies on our culture some family kiss on their cheeks as a sign of respect or in friends they kiss every time they meet also in intimate relationship such as lovers or couples .
Best location to have it:
The Location for having your first kiss is usually whapped in a placed where their usually dated. Placed during especially during first kiss is so meaningful to each of us. for some the a romantic first kiss is very special during your first date together a dinner date exclusive only for both of you with in a beautiful garden with lots of blooming flower, eating your favorite food with wine .after a while both of you dancing with favorite love song on the floor, holding each other so gentle eyes are shinning with love.. Guy should take note her favorite food preferences, impressed your self to her in this way she may feel flattered and so special. For others theirs no exact time or location it’s just happened any time when both people expressed their love and admiration to each other.

Kiss is good to your health:
What is the advantage of kiss in our health? It keeps you healthy a stress soothing buss reduces your body level of corticol, a chemical that strains your immune system. a romantic lip lock triggers the release of oxytocin , the hormone associated with intimate connections it fight cavities the saliva rush from a mouthwatering makes out session battles plaque build up your teeth it also like meditating effects slowly smooching quells anxiety and leads to the Zen experience of being one hundred present in the moment.

We all have some things that we would wish to do or have or perhaps be. Perhaps you have some interest in how to find the best place for doing your first kiss. There is certainly a considerable amount of curiosity about the way to find the best place for doing your first kiss on the web. There’s much helpful info available on that if you are interested. This article is intended to assist you further whatever interest you may have in how to find the best place for doing your first kiss. Keep reading to learn to find the best place for doing your first kiss in 3 easy steps.

The 1st step is you should share ideas with your boyfriend. You actually need to get this because you need to know which and what place both of you are comfortable with. You need to avoid places where only the two of you only like in hotels. You will need to do this first step promptly, correctly and completely. The second step is you need to know if you are really ready to experience it. Items to avoid here are regretting in the end and you also will need to avoid to over flowing the sensation that brings this first kiss. The last step is going to be asking your partner if he is also ready to have this sweet and unforgettable experience. This is really important because you need to know everything so that in the end there will be not regrets will happen.

Just keep to the steps as specified and you ought to have zero difficulties with how to find the best place for doing your first kiss easily, rapidly and well. Just do the things specified and steer clear of the traps and problems as explained. Then congratulate yourself while you truly take pleasure in the benefits and rewards of having successfully find the best place for doing your first kiss! And all by only your personal efforts!